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Wish you have a wonderfull day...Thanks for coming !

Regards,

Aprilia

Senin, 13 Juli 2009

If everything in life is free, where’s the pride of having something?

Judul itu menjadi topik pembicaraan pagi ini antara aku dan beberapa teman...when we're chatt...hahaha

dan beginilah beberapa jawaban dari mereka :

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so write your name on that something, it’s yours haha..
saya jg masih bertanya2 org2 kok dl bisa memiliki ini tanah siapa, ini tanah siapa, pan dulunya semua kaga ada yang punya, yang punya jg yg bikin (allah SWT)… kepemilikan ada karena efek penjajahan gak si?

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“worth having, worth pursuing"

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the pride is, when u fell much grateful and maintain those free stuffs…

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itu sebabnya orang kita, yang dianggap sebagai bangsa kaya oleh bangsa lain - gemah ripah loh jinawi - ngelempar biji bisa jadi pohon-, jarang bisa menghargai sesuatu

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makanya di dunia gak ada yang gratis… contohnya waktu, Tuhan memberikan kepada kita secara gratis, makanya banyak yang terlena dan gak menghargai waktu itu…

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Sometime you just don’t need pride. And don’t you ever forget my brother that pride is a member of a very well known society called “Seven Deadly Sins”. There is a possibility when everything in life is free. But that kind of life is not here. It exists in somewhere we all know as heaven. Heaven here on earth? Yes, why not! Her name is “Anarchy” and most people simply don’t like it. That’s why everything in life can’t be free.

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and life is not about pride only

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i think it’s more about respect than pride
having something is not always about pride
if it’s so, maybe that’s just your ego talking

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then, how about u?


Jakarta, 14 Juli 2009
[aprilia]

i made my promise

if you're asking if i need you...the answer is forever

if you're asking if i will leave you...the answer is never

if you're asking what i value...the answer is YOU

if you're asking if i love you...the answer is I DO

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Baby, if there ever comes a day

When we can't be together, keep me in your heart

I'll stay there forever

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Promise me,

for hearing my thoughts

understanding my dreams and being my best friends

for filling my life with joy and loving me without end

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Someday,

When a ring is around

it turns forever and that's how long we'll be together




Jakarta, 14 Juli 2009
[aprilia]

i willed my way

Remember this line forever:


PRESSURE MAKES DIAMONDS.

MY WILL IS MY PRESSURE.

NOW, LET ME SHINE.


Jakarta, 14 Juli 2009
[aprilia]

Minggu, 21 Juni 2009

When Uncle John said - Part 2 (waiting for the world change)

Politicians are still greedy, waiting for the world to change

School is expensive, waiting for the world to change

People cant tell who’s right or wrong, waiting for the world to change

Students are still fighting, waiting for the world to change

People disbelieve their leaders, waiting for the world to change

People hating their country, waiting for the world to change

Sponsors never trusts hiphop, waiting for the world to change

Most of Indonesia has no access to information and education, waiting for the world to change

The media spins whatever news that sells the most, waiting for the world to change

The media is taking sides, waiting for the world to change

Books are extremely expensive, waiting for the world to change

Law enforcements are corrupted and break the law they swore to protect, waiting for the world to change

So little real role models in Indonesia, waiting for the world to change



hhhhhhhh, i hate waiting.

We’ll make the change today.

There must be something we can do.

There must be something YOU can do.

What do you do for a living?

What can you do?

What can i do?

There must be something we can do.

Sorry John.

Waiting sucks.

and there...July, 9th 2009

the election....pheeeewwww....suck!



Jakarta, 22 Juni 2009
[aprilia]

Selasa, 02 Juni 2009

Sederhana = Bahagia

Diawali dengan sebuah pernyataan yang bersirkulasi di kepalaku...

“Semakin sederhana seseorang, semakin sederhana ekspektasinya terhadap kebahagiaan”

Aku meyakini ini.

Semakin jauh kita dari kesederhanaan, semakin kebahagiaan merupakan sesuatu yang kompleks.

Aku rasa, dalam relationship, perempuan juga mencari hal ini..

Ada 2 jenis kesederhanaan dalam pria yang dicari perempuan.

Sederhana dalam kepribadian.

dan (jangan ketawa)

Sederhana dalam materi.

Ada perempuan yang memang mencari pria yang sederhana dalam materi, dengan keyakinan bahwa dengan keadaan ekonomi yang biasa biasa saja, dia akan lebih bahagia. Lebih jauh dari masalah.

Ada juga perempuan yang mencari pria yang sederhana dalam kepribadian.

Disini, biasanya, duda atau pria beristri menang.

Karena biasanya 2 yang diatas mulai menyadari bahwa pria, dimana mana, sebenarnya hanya butuh seorang wanita untuk bisa bersamanya. Titik.

Bukan kehadiran wanita seksi, bukan wanita cerdas, bukan wanita yang dandan.

Hanya kehadiran seorang wanita.

kalau udah begini, ekspektasi akan kebahagiaan mereka sangat sederhana.

Disinilah kebahagiaan muncul.

Bukan mapan, bukan bijak, bukan dewasa yang menjadi kualitas pria duda atau pria beristri.

Tapi kesederhanaan dalam menjalankan hubungan, dan kehidupan.

Nggak lagi nyari nyari, nggak lagi panikan, nggak lagi sibuk mencari eksistensi, nggak lagi sibuk mencari jati diri…

Gak ribet.

Sederhana.

Orang yang kehidupannya udah ribet, cenderung menjalankan kehidupannya itu dengan sederhana.

Dalam mencintai seseorang, semakin sederhana hal hal yang kita cintai, semakin bahagia kita dalam menjalankan hubungan.

Bayangkan, seorang suami, yang begitu mencintai suara istrinya yang sedang berbicara, atau mencintai wangi tubuhnya, mencintai lembut kulitnya ketika tidur, ini adalah hal hal yang sederhana.

Bandingkan, seorang suami yang mencintai istrinya ketika sedang bercinta, atau mencintai istrinya kalau istrinya lagi dandan, atau cinta istrinya kalau lagi MUDA. Hehehehe.

Ribet ga sih?

Make it simple...it will make u happy


Jakarta, 3 Juni 2009
[aprilia]

Senin, 11 Mei 2009

What's love means to Kids

when kids talking about loves...is Touching words from the mouth of babes.
A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does love mean?'

The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think.

here they're...
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'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.'

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'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore.
So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.'

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'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'

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'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.'

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'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.'

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'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.'

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'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.
My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss'

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'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.'

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'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,'

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'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.'

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'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.'

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'My mommy loves me more than anybody
You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.

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'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.'

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'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.'

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Loe is when my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'

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'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.'

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That is love...how about you?
Have a lovely days...


Jakarta, 12 May 2009
[aprilia]

Senin, 13 April 2009

Menilai Seorang Wanita...(part 1)

Beberapa waktu yang lalu, aku lagi makan bersama keluarga dan beberapa sepupu ku di sebuah restaurant di Solo, Jawa Tengah

Disamping meja ku ada keluarga juga lagi makan.

Pas disamping ku ada perempuan yang sangat cantik.

Even my cousin said she’s hot !

Wearing her offshoulder loose shirt…

Sedikit ngatung, jeans turun di panggulnya…

A little busty, red hot lips …

My whole family was blown away...My Dad also...hehehe

But she was slackin abit. Kayak yg lagi kesel gitu.

Senyum jarang sekali muncul diwajahnya…

Mamaku merhatiin perempuan ini.. makannya sopan.. anggun..

ketika minum TIBA TIBA AIRNYA DIKUMUR KUMUR DI MULUTNYA sebelum diminum!

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I have no offense really, bahkan aku juga terkadang melakukannya...tapi NGGAK DIMINUM

Tapi berhubung awalnya sudah terkesima dengan kecantikannya, pas adegan itu muncul, kita semua kaget ngeliatnya.

Agak ngga klop aja dengan penampilannya

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Nah, aku tau, cara paling mudah untuk menilai seseorang adalah dari SIKAPNYA.

Tapi sikap baru keliatan kalau kita sudah menghabiskan waktu banyak bersama dengan seseorang. Setidaknya 15 menit lah.

HOW DO YOU JUDGE A WOMAN IN 15 SECONDS SPAN?

hehehe...



Jakarta,13 April 2009
[aprilia]